CSPV were disappointed to learn about the new law related to banning parents from schools last week. While we know only a small minority of parents behave in a way that is threatening to school staff, the message this sends to parents can have a lasting impact. It is critical that people, particularly parents who enter school grounds, are mindful of their behaviour and respectful of others, and that school staff and students are protected from aggressive behaviour, however, it is not the only solution.

There has never been a more important time than now to create a culture of schools as core social centres, where familes feel a sense of belonging, are welcomed and valued as members of a community that includes their children.

During 2020 we became many small, isolated communities as our extended families were not able to spend time together, adults and children were not able to socialise and the opportunities for nurturing relationships went online, which as we know is not the same as meeting and interacting in person.

The message from the Victorian government for parents when children returned to school was to stay away, do not enter the school grounds. 

This has not encouraged a culture of schools who enable parents to feel welcomed as valued partners in their child's learning at school. While there are many schools who have embraced families back into the school community, there are many parents who still feel they are not welcomed or are once again on the outer when it comes to their children's learning at school. This can contribute to increased anxiety and frustration leading to certain behaviours.

While at home, having been asked to support their child's learning while juggling work and other responsibilities, they were able to be a partner in their child's learning. They had connection with the teachers and felt more connected with their children and their daily lives as a student.

CSPV would like to encourage all parents to continue to engage with the school, particularly with teachers, in a positive and respectful manner, so that you are able to continue to be a part of the Catholic community and your child's learning.

Leading by example for your children is so important, especially when it comes to developing positive relationships with their teachers. The best lessons you can give children is through your actions, which then means there will be no need for laws to prevent parents from entering school property.